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[AJM]

OMG - yes it is harder when they are in the house. But that's not really all of it. Focusing on you will help you regain your self-esteem, confidence, and your mind. It's painful. There are things in your life you can change about you. Now is a good time. The thing is, you cannot change hers. The more you try, like quicksand, the deeper she goes. It does absolutely no good to try and reason, plead, etc. Simply find yourself and be there. This may not last or it may. Either way, you need to rely on you and only you (and your friends of course) for your happiness and your stability. Your w is no longer there for you. The aliens have come and taken her. It may be so many years before she realizes what her part was, if ever. It may be too late by then.
It hurts Bobby. You don't want to admit that it's anything more than a temporary thing. It may not be. It may be. You can't know until you are able to look back on it.
The only logical thing you can do is to focus on you, yourself, and your best friend - you! Because it will get worse.

Help her move out when she wants to go. When there is nothing to do - do nothing. When you need to do something for you - do it. Don't wait for her. Don't try to prevent her from crashing. She will need to. Allow yourself to build trust with her, but don't push it. Set your boundaries and enforce them. Be happy and content with you and you alone before you try to be happy with her or anyone for that matter. There is nothing more to be done as only time will heal.

Be you Bobby. Be happy with you. Look in the mirror and know you are the man you are meant to be with or without somebody else.

My $0.04 worth.