Grit posted some very good question for you! Take some time to think about them...really think about them...
You may be afraid of what you find - DONT...'cause Lola....You just may find YOU - May find those answers that you have been searching for.
I agree with everyone else...change the locks..house is in your name. He shows up again..tell him his shi* is in the garage.
Sorry that you going through this...BUT I know you are strong! I know it!
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans