Sorry never meant to make my story confusing. Yes ex boyfriend(46) after going on family vacation that included 29 year old and her two boys, decided to move her in with him. I didn't know this when I sent the letter. Just knew that when I backed off, it changed something and he wasn't talking. So at a friends urging I just wrote him what was going on from my view point but starting back when we were dating. I am not actively doing anything to come between them. Just watching the train wreck from afar. I sent the letter when they were all on vacation back in May.
As for your H, I would just come out and ask him how he would have liked tile that was pink in his bathroom? Yeah, didn't think so. We are replacing it.
Thanks for listening. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory