I have gotten alot of good advice up here and I thank you all for it. I had gotten tested for STD's on April 21. Thank God everything came out alright. I am going to set up another appointment in October to be checked again which will be 6 months. I have not talked to my husband for 3 days. He has not called me and I have not called him. He normally sees the kids on Saturdays. He did not come last Saturday though and I have not talked to him to see if he is coming today. If he comes by I will update.


Me (32) H (36)
Together (12 years)
Married (3 years)
Children (4 ages 11,9,7,6)
Bomb dropped (November 09)
Seperated (January 29, 2010)