You don't think he's missing you at all?? Are you serious??
It doesn't matter that his parents don't miss you--and I HOPE that they are trying to convince him that he is over you--because that means they see he is not.
There is a huge advantage that you have gone dark on him--he has been forced to deal with some of his own issues. And he has missed you.
You may not win him back, but it won't be because he doesn't miss you. If he is a human, he has missed you.
I would say if anything, because of the darkness and lack of emotion during the separation process, he is convinced YOU don't miss HIM. You haven't reacted like a typical female at all--no crying, no begging, no emotion on your part. You may have gotten mad, but that is not the same.
I'll bet you would shock the HECK out of him if you could somehow let him know you've missed him.
But you guard those emotions carefully, so you won't look "foolish" and won't "lose". Those things you keep to yourself are the things he needs the most. My fear is that you won't get that in time and yes, you will have your self-fulfilling prophecy come true and you will be "right" here, too.
It is very junior high to have the "FINE, if you don't want me I don't want you" mentality. Adults, when faced with a loss that MEANS somethig to them, don't behave like this.
You have led your H through example ALL through your M. I challenge you to "see" that again, you LED him to be like this!!! That is the bad news.
The GOOD news, is, that Forest is right!! You have wonderful odds of leading him in ANOTHER direction!!
You. Have. This. Ability. God. I. Pray. You. See. It!!
(Ever see the movie the Miracle Worker with Patty Duke and Ann Bancroff? This so makes me think of that movie!!)
One day your hand will be in the water and the light will go on--after you stop "fighting" with your teacher!!
