Where does the WAW go

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When I was where you are, I had no positive "feelings" for my H. For this reason, I didn't believe I loved him. I felt many negative feelings about him, and a lot of anger - which put a lot of distance between me and wanting to work on things. It just seemed like a distance I couldn't cross.

Sounds like you have lost your feelings for him, but that doesn't mean you don't love him. Love is what you do - and probably neither of you has been actively loving each other. Are you familiar with the 5 love languages? If not, read up.

I'm more out than in our M and leaving might be best.

Best? Hard to say. Here's what it came down to with me: the pain of staying was worse than the pain of leaving. And when I left, that is when the real work on our M began. It was a nightmare in so many ways, but we both say to this day, looking back, it seemed necessary.

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