Hey Kat, I guess I am confused--this guy has a gf? The 29 y/o??
I think you may have scared him with any heart-felt, emotional letter. That is why truth darts are so good--short, to the point, no real emotion to deal with. It's a guy thing and I "get it". They don't want too much drama (at least the ones that I would be interested in don't). I do have a "slant" on what I want in a guy which, considering my history, you may want to take with a grain of salt.lol.
Hey! You helped me with a good truth dart a bit ago!! Ever used one yourself?
So...don't know if this one will come around or not, but in general I would say you need to get some "truths" about yourself out to the universe. "I need a man that....and then fill in the blank. Men LOVE a challenge--so things like "Let's see if you can ...." go over well too.
I wish you hadn't sent it so quickly--it would have been fun to throw in a challenge to him as well as the other stuff...
I need the practice too...I'm not throwing out too much stuff right now and I defintitely could be doing better right now!
Ugh--I need one concerning the tile in the bathroom. I have replaced the leaky vanity and sink, the mirror, the light, the floor was tiled, and a new medicine cabinet was put in and I'm just finishing up with painting and putting up new baseboard.
So my dilema is with the tile around tub/shower. It is pink (this is my son's bathroom) and has yucky grout and the guy doing the work pulled off a tile and there is mold growing behind it--disgusting.
So my H says as I am painting "what are you doing about the tile " and like an IDIOT I turn to him and ask" can I do sometthing about it?" and he says "I'm not paying for anything more--I paid for all the other stuff (which is true).
My S's birthday is coming up and while in the car yesterday my H asks him what he wants for Bday and I said "he wants new tile--you don't want that pink tile do you S" and S mumbles "not really".
So now I am working on it--my one friend says to just tell him very strongly (a 180 for me!) that the tile is being replaced.
I want H AND S to do it together--I think it's not that big of a deal, my H watches all those home shows and GOOD GRIEF by now should know how to do SOMETHING...
Anyhoo--just one of the little things I'm working on...any tips?? Truth darts or challenges coming to mind??
