I think maybe it's more like your H feels guilty...which is more like he feels sorry for himself. My mom explained this to me long ago but I thought it was good! I thought it meant if he felt guilty then he would realize it was wrong and then end it.
No. The guilt is from knowing it's wrong but not wanting to end it (at this time).


I just don't feel sorry for WASs at all! They are selfish!

And when there is an OW involved, I think it makes matters even more selfish.

Last edited by newmama; 08/28/10 03:53 PM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004