Originally Posted By: Greek
Do you work outside of the home? Do you have the means to leave? I'm not suggesting that is what you should do - just exploring your options.


I don't currently work out of the home but have been looking for something.

Originally Posted By: Greek
You are walking on eggshells through your one and only life, and in front of your children who are learning from you. This should not go on.


I totally agree. I only want whats best for my kids and staying may not be best.

Originally Posted By: Greek
He is not participating actively in counseling, so that route isn't working.


I haven't wanted to point fingers, so I have just focused on me.

Originally Posted By: Greek
You want more.
ABSOLUTELY

Originally Posted By: Greek
The M could be better. But doing the same things you have been doing doesn't work.

Something has to shift.


That's the decision I reached several months back when I dropped the bomb. I just can't figure out how/what to change to get things moving towards getting better.


"I feel like Rocky in the fifteenth round, beaten beyond recognition, when I realize, the only person I've been fighting for is...myself."