MC appointment this week

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Me and the wife are doing another MC session on Tues. Not sure what to talk about or how to start. Me and her have been discussing her affair. I am not sure she is truely understanding how deeply this hurt. We both have communication and control issues. I feel we have so much to work on but not sure how to approach it. On top of marital stress, work stress is at a high as well. That is why I have been doing IC for about 7 monthes now, to help cope with all the stresses in my life.