cheated on, lied to, and now I am moving on

[awest1217]

I think I am going to go with not inviting them. To answer some of the questions, I wouldn't mind having them around. To me, it doesn't matter either way, but I do not want to get used to having to do everything together. This party wouldn't be a problem because my brother will be on vacation and he hates H. He wouldn't do anything, but still it would be awkward, and with H living with his parents, i can't invite them without him.

I am having the party at my house so it would be a little awkward and looking at the weather report...right now they are saying rain so I don't want H's parents walking around my house noticing how H is out of everything. That would be awkward.

I would like it is they invite me to stuff with S involved, but really it is something to get used to. Everything is mostly between me and H, not the in-laws so it is between H and them to see S more. That burden is off my shoulders. Most of the time, I will have S the weekend before his b-day and H the weekend after so we both get to see him close to his b-day and probably for forever we will all (H, S and myself) go out to eat on S's actual b-day so really not a big deal.

Thanks for all the help!

Today i am going to finish vacuuming my car and then off to buy S's b-day present and supplies for the party next week.

So a little weirdness. I have been feeling better and better, however after H picked up S yesterday, I decided to do some much needed yard work. Actually not much to do because there hasn't been rain here in probably 3 weeks so nothing is growing, but I needed to mow and then I raked, planted some grass seed (fall blend) then watered. After all of that my allergies really kicked in and by the time H came to drop off S, I was the worst I had been all week. My eyes were watery, my nose completely stuffed (whereas all day it was running which is a positive change), my voice was semi-gone due to drainage in my throat. It was bad so the weird thing is H keeps saying, "if you want to take some allergy medicine and want S and I to just hang at the house we will". "If you need anything please let me know." "Really S and I can hang out at the house if you are feeling bad." This continued this morning too when H got S. Totally weird...