Just wanted to update quick. I made sure to be home by 9:30 (the time they needed to leave) bc H had me sign DD and him up for a preschool project today at Lowes. So...I get here. He's laying on the couch looking like a slob. DD is running around in jammies, hair and teeth not brushed. I walked in and was totally cheery to her.
I walked right up to the couch, waited for him to look me in the eye, shook my head, handed him his phone and said "UNBELIEVABLE" Then I went to DD's bedroom with her.
Great job on Step One, Courts.
Step Two: avoid his attempts today to try to get you to reveal what you're thinking, and "what you're going to do about this." Just see above from me for how to handle that.
