Hmmmm...now might be time for the "talk"...no pressure...no guilt...no crying...just be strong and let him know that YOU don't NEED him...IF he comes home it is because you WANT him...but you WANT him to WANT it too...
Did he have a fight with OW...did she boot him out cause he couldn't buy her a home like he may have promised...lots of reasons here...
Procede with caution...I would definitely let him know that coming home is an option...but that you have to be sure it is the right thing for both of you...that he needs to really know what he wants that might mean taking time alone...tell him, he may need time ALONE...before actually moving in but in that time you two can see each other casually, talk when he feels like it, and get re-aquainted because as much as you love him...you don't want a repeat performance of this past year! And...just let him know that you have until Nov to make any real decisions before the D would be final...so just let that sit for now.
