I am going to let him know that all of his stuff is in the garage. He is no longer welcome in my home but he is welcome to come look thru the garbage bags in the garage. Whatever he doesn't take is going in the garbage. DONE.
Your H has been about controlling you since I met you here Lola.
Look up thread I told you to do this over a month ago.(except I said put his sh!t on the curb and call him to tell him to come get it.)
I knew he would continue to try to control you through the only way he has left.
Well he still has the D paperwork.
Don't expect that to go on your schedule either if you leave it to him.
I want you think about something.
Why do you allow yourself to be his pawn?
I know you know what he is capable of doing and yet you don't take action against it.
Why are you passive to protecting yourself?
It would be different if this stuff did not upset you but it does.
And it should.
What is it inside that makes you accept this?
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
