Originally Posted By: Bobby
I did not say anything. I just listened.

Good for you.

Originally Posted By: Bobby
He felt she was making a big mistake and said he planned to speak with her.


Your adult children will have some opinions Bobby. My advice is what a wise poster on here said and I repeat it because it is the best advice I have heard.

Your job is not to repair the relationship between your W and your children.

Your job is not to damage it.(nickel Grace)

Originally Posted By: Bobby
now she is hell bent to get her way.


This is probably because she perceives she has never gotten her way based on your posts here about your R.

Do the opposite of what she expects.

She expects you to fight her on everything.

You are public enemy number 1 in her eyes.

Her expectations of you are "more of the same"

The number 1 Rule first and foremost PROTECT YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILDREN

Then try to detach which will allow you to be the opposite of her expectation of you.

And if you like

You can answer my questions up there ^^^^^^

or

Not.


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am