Good advice, Being Me. OW definitely doesn't think about the children. MM, I loved your retort to OW that you got the best part of your WH - your kids! I also hope he retrieves his head from his back passage! It's very hard kicking these waywards to the curb - we love them dearly, want to save them from making a big mistake, but we can only control ourselves, not them.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369