i know youa re looking for some responses from pdt, i've been there where you are. the feeling of wanting to get back at h for the lies, cheating, etc. if you do something now in the heat of emotions, you may regret what you've done at a later time.

there have been a few occasions i was in the dark as you, not knowing h moved, all about his activities. etc. and oh the pain, and and foolishness you feel like. trying to grasp some sor tof control over the sit. by doing something evil to him.

think about the long run, act like a lady. u could go back home and act as if all the while secretly gathering evidence. i think he going to expect u to jump off thedeep end and acting as if all is ok will be better for now. plus that will give pdt a chance to respond

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline