Relocated the family and he dropped the bomb

[BeingMe]

Have a good trip, MM! Hope you do some thinking too, while he is doing his. This sort of thing doesn't usually end smoothly, so expect OW to hang on with a death grip. I wonder if they have moved the EA to a PA ... chances are likely if he saw her on his last trip to 'previous city' and 'slept' in the spare room. This will make things even more difficult. Remember, looks has nothing to do with it. She could be the ugliest woman, but if she has found a way to make him feel good in some way, then she has him. It's all infatuation at this point, an addiction.

These so-called other women do not care about the children involved. There was a lady here whose academic husband left her for a colleague, and they had several children, I think she had quadruplets or something like that too. They are divorced now, and last I heard she was happy in her singleness.

Just make sure you protect yourself and your children financially. All we oldsters advise this, and we do so for a reason ... too many times a LBS will keep hoping and not believing that their H/W would do anything to hurt their children, but they do. If they can have an A, that is hurting their children, but they do worse, like spending family money, getting into further/new debt (and you are debt free now, so make sure it stays that way). Not always, but a lot of the time. So it's up to you, to protect yourself and the children.

Take care.