I agree, they reach for the control, and at what point do they realize the grip is not there? I dont mean to be so short with her and her reaction to my responses are: you dont have to be rude: well I dont have to be all gushy either, I am not going to be all friendly, ya I can show PMA GAL and all the other stuff but unless it has to do with the kids, I have checked the F**k out of your babbling BS, and listening to you over and over again about what I have done wrong in this M. Again look in the friggin mirror.
She has no clue how every relationship she had before me, every guy probably got fed up with her I am woman hear me roar attitude that they finally said, I dont need this woman in my life. She gave me 2 beautiful kids, which is the best thing that came out of this M. She is so attached to her family which has ignored her time and time again because of her spoiled attitude and they refer to her as drama mamma. Even my family has said if she doesnt have some kind of drama in her life, she gets bored. Well I am tired of it.
I went to pick up kids today, her car was not at daycare, I texted her with "im here" waited 15 minutes and called her.
I was going to ask if she was running late, she started to talk before I had a chance, she said she dropped kids off and ran to the bank before it closed, she said I left my phone in the car and was about to text you back, she said kids are inside, I said ok, she started to talk more, I said ok bye and hung up as I could still hear her talking. She didnt call or text that I am being "rude" like her usual response, dont know if she is getting the hint, I am not putting up with her sh!t anymore.
I took the kids to gym and then out to dinner and went to an arcade to play games. We get back to my "temporary place" give the kids a bath and they keep wanting to stay up and spend time with me. This kills me, they are tired and want to curl up with daddy, repeating over and over about staying with them, I do not talk about our sitch with them, they are 5 and 3. I had them call W earlier, she didnt answer, she is at work. She calls around 9, D talks a bit with her, and S said he doesnt want to talk to her, he does the same thing to me when he is with her. He is not happy about this, he is a smart little man.
I am very supportive of them talking to mommy telling them to say they love her and all that good stuff. I do not get on the phone at all, just upbeat and calm in the background with my kids.
I did go look at some nice apartments today, and I could not stop looking at the leasing agents @ss, I am a guy and noticed her checking me out as well. She asked about me and I told her a brief summary of why I was looking at apartments, she saw pics of my kids and was a little flirty. She said she lives there as well and said the pool gets pretty crazy on weekends. It was a good PMA boost and felt good. I need that kind of stuff going through this crap.
Peace..... I think the W is bipolar BTW she is a nut that I am done trying to crack!!!!
