I'm going to post my own incredibly outrageous antics while I was out of my mind during my affair.
While at the airport, I lost the OW's phone number. My flight had changed times and I had no way of letting OW know. I called my wife and asked her to find it for me! (which she did)
While in counseling, I was considering breaking it off with the OW, I asked my W if we (OW and I) could continue to communicate as friends!
I was so effed up but I'm better now. I can attest to the craziness one goes thru while enmeshed in an A.
