NEED A REFRESHER COURSE AFTER 3 YRS BACK TOGETHER

[ALH3247]

I did ask him and I asked OW via FB.Both said no. OW even said she wouldn't hurt her nor my kids again and that she is in a relationship. I guess I get paranoid b/c H still lies to me about stupid things. For instance.. he got a credit card 2 years ago that he has been hiding. Only reason I found out is b/c he hadn't made a payment in 2 months so they were calling the house. I answered and was like, we dont have a credit card with you. H finally confessed. I am pulling statements to see what he spent money on...also, when I asked OW if H ever bot her a ring (which H totally denied 3 yrs ago) she said yes, and that she had it in her mom's safe. I asked for it back b/c we are paying for this ring since H charged. She got real mean and said she is keeping ring and that her & my H really loved each other. After hearing this from her, I knew I needed to get back on this website b/c I was letting my mind take control over my emotions.