Yeah, about the letters, it is probably a good time to throw it in. I wouldn't suggest that he doesn't write them, but instead that he gives them to her himself. Something like, "I received your letter to bub. I think it would be better if you gave them to her directly when she can read them."
If he doesn't read between the lines on that and keeps sending, then you can get more direct. Just my opinion!
High road, sheesh. . . I don't know. The only road I know is distant and polite!
Gift of Betrayal, hmm. Yeah, that title has got to be a major turn off. But I'm sure there are some gems in there. Can you let us know about them when you read them?
Originally Posted By: Piano
But a bigger part of me thinks he just wants me to accept this as the status quo
I thought that about my WH for a while. But now I think he wants me to reassure him that everything's okay. Your WH could be similar.
That's why I am so adamant over in my neck of the woods that I don't reassure him. We're not friends!!! What he did is not an acceptable, okay, regular life type of thing!
Both of our WHs know it. I think they're looking to us for support. But screw that!
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.
