Hey P.

It so so so sucks to hear from the WHs. NC is a bajillion times better.

I am not sure if you have other family in your area, especially his family. But if you do (even if it's just your family), I would first wait a few days and then write back and say something like,

"Hi WH,

I need some space from you. Please write _____ for updates on bub until I tell you otherwise.

In a similar vein, please let me know when you have a job fully secured.

P"

I wasn't too good on that second line, but the point is "don't update me about every little cotton pickin thing with your job prospects!"


What I hear in that email, P, is guilt and a tinge of missing you. Seriously. I know it sounds distant to you, but he is telling you a lot more than he needs to.


If you send the above, you're not really breaking NC. Rather, you're enforcing it! You can still make your month! smile


me, 30
WH, 29
D born June 2010
M: July 2001
Bomb/S: 1/14/10
Done with it all.