It so so so sucks to hear from the WHs. NC is a bajillion times better.
I am not sure if you have other family in your area, especially his family. But if you do (even if it's just your family), I would first wait a few days and then write back and say something like,
"Hi WH,
I need some space from you. Please write _____ for updates on bub until I tell you otherwise.
In a similar vein, please let me know when you have a job fully secured.
P"
I wasn't too good on that second line, but the point is "don't update me about every little cotton pickin thing with your job prospects!"
What I hear in that email, P, is guilt and a tinge of missing you. Seriously. I know it sounds distant to you, but he is telling you a lot more than he needs to.
If you send the above, you're not really breaking NC. Rather, you're enforcing it! You can still make your month!
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.