Well, I WASN'T there financially during a lot of our r. Its my 180. Being responsible is a new thing for me. And I just feel the need to help someone I care deeply about. It was a hard time for her. An injury that prevented working and DDs starting school. Her dad has cancer. She was losing it and needed help.

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)