i've been specifically angry that wh has left me to do all the work. i'm working full time (soon), caring for the baby, trying to keep a clean house AND keep myself fit. Or get myself fit.
So I am realizing that I will need to see him more than I want to.
It was good tonight having a friend over and that sort of being a buffer between us. I'll try to get that more often. But sometimes i won't be able to have a friend with me.
And yes, I suggested the goodbye email since he wanted to 'talk.' and i was getting the point across that i was done!
I love the "u-guh"/Hi girl stuff!
I wanted to let y'all know an interesting thing.
The friend that I hung out with tonight is (sort of) an OW!
here's the story.
Guy: 35. Never married. However, had a baby with a live-in girlfriend.
the baby is now 3.
When his baby was 9 months old, he started an affair and eventually got that chick pregnant. Happened to be the one I talked with a few months ago and wrote about on here.
Probably around when that baby was 9 months old, he got with my friend from tonight. They've been together around 2 years. (My dates might be off, but bottom line is he was playing multiple women at once.)
My friend isn't sure if the original baby momma knows about her. But this guy basically lives with original baby momma and hides all of his correspondance with friend.
My friend is now telling him that he needs to either end it with original baby momma or commit to her.
Well, she's been telling him that for about a year. He just keeps being able to charm the both of them!
My friend says she'd be pissed, though, if she learned he was also sleeping with original baby momma. But since they live together, it kinda seems like it would happen. but he insists it isn't happening that way.
It's really weird to hear things from an OW perspective. My friend feels bad for the original baby momma (live-in girlfriend, perhaps?), but she also feels like she knows about what's happening.
Probably didn't fully make sense to you, but it's just interesting.
Really tired.
off to check threads!
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.
