Originally Posted By: pinhead
Walking away when someone is yelling at you is a perfectly fine boundary.


Thanks PH, I should've been more clear. I know walking away or ending the conversation is a good boundary but I never know what to say or if I should say anything. Often I just end up with "ok, well I've got to go, bye". I get nervous when I'm getting yelled at and my auto mode is to just get out as quickly as possible, so I end up ending the conversation without explanation really. If I try and defuse it by saying "ok, I don't like being yelled at/why are you yelling just talk to me" then he only gets more upset.


Me: 24
H: 26
2 SS: 7 & 5; D: 3
H filed D papers: 8/2/10
OW discovered: 08/10
D papers counter-filed: 10/2/10
There is no method to my madness