TH I have already started that process of getting another place.
Bluestar, I will propose a schedule to her. I think that is a good idea. As far as reminding her, I dont think i need to go there, I have not brought up the D with her at all. The roommate is a security consultant, he is just a single guy, no drugs or anything like that, I still carry a badge for now so obviously that is not her issue. The fact he is single, enjoys being single is what bothers her. But I needed to get into something quickly and this was the easiest for now.
I am going to get my own place in the next 2 weeks for just me, no roommates and when I ave the kids it will just be me and the kids.
Im so sick of this crap with her, it makes me wanna puke.