Trust me I'm not sitting by the phone anymore lol. It's just happening. I did test the temperature the other day (a no-no) but it did give a different result than normal. Funny you bring up she may not be seeing the grass being as green. I thought of that today at work.
Are you saying just stay elusive?
She has not brought up R talks and I'm no longer willing to set myself up for that failure anymore. Time alone has made me really aware of this, along with all of the advice given. I'm no where near the confidence that Rob shines, but as I do things for me I feel my self-respect coming back. I also know baby steps are a must. I've accepted, as it is right now, that I'm getting D'd and it would take an act of God to stop it right now, but how do I become MORE of a "cat whisperer"? I feel I need to know what these "texts" mean...how the hell do I "predict" what's coming if I don't understand the here and now.