Oh, I screwed up and left the DB/DR site open on my browser. She saw it and hid the screen so the girls wouldn't read it and freak. Not sure what it was opened to, or how much she might have read. In some ways, I don't really mind if she knew what I've written, except for my paranoid outburst in the infidelity section. But it bugs me a bit that I slipped. I had come home from lunch and read some forum posts while I ate lunch.