Okay, nothing compared to Red's H's high antics..but..

This morning I received an email from WH. I am copying and pasting to here because it's a symbol of where my WH is in his life and his "tone" with me: cordial and businesslike.

I am crying because there is NO LOVE left in him.. HE HAS MOVED ON. I still don't even know where he is living (I presume with OW) - is it normal that he leaves without a forwarding address? Is having his email 'good enough' ? I don't want to email him back with news UNTIL HE ADDRESSES WHAT HE DID TO OUR RELATIONSHIP AND HOW HE COULD FATHOM TO LEAVE ME ALONE ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD TO RAISE HIS BABY?

AM I MAD? Should I write back? If I write back, then aren't I just letting him cake-eat? What GOOD is he to me as a father? I only want his money now. If he's not there to help, then give me a roof over my head and $ to help raise his child.

Please help...


Hi (Wife),

If it hasn't changed, (baby) should be going to the hospital tomorrow for checkup. I hope she is getting better.
Please let me know how you went.
I hope both of you are well, and that (baby) is ready to enjoy her first spring season to come.
Take care,
(husband)

PS: I had my meeting with (company) this week for a potential job on a new project (yet to be signed though). I am meeting with them again next week.


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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