I called and spoke to my SS today, and he said his Dad talked to him last night and didn't say a single word about it. He said he was going to wait until he did. I just told him that anytime, just let me know. He just didn't need it cluttering up his place indefinitely.
No expectations! I haven't responded to H since his last 'offer' yesterday. Do not plan to make any further overtures to him at this time. Will talk to L in the next few weeks to make sure I am aware of each and every option at this point.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011