Once my husband found out that I had spoke to her again he told me that we will never have sex again.
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He said that it is to hard for him to be around me and not want to have sex with me.
Tay Tay,
Does your husband often use sex as a weapon like this? I find it a very strange dynamic.
btw, your best response to this is a cheery "OK -- your loss, toots!" -- or something similar that sounds authentic to the way you normally speak.
Puppy
Yes, he has always used sex as a weapon. I am an extremely sexual person. In our 12 years together sex has never been a problem. It has been a problem for him though because I want it all the time. He knows that my day just does not function right unless I get my sex lol. When he started seeing the OW all of a sudden his sex drive went through the roof. All of a sudden he wants to have sex with me all day every day even though he was living with her.
Me (32) H (36) Together (12 years) Married (3 years) Children (4 ages 11,9,7,6) Bomb dropped (November 09) Seperated (January 29, 2010)
