busy day around here so I might as well add my 2 cents.
Confront what? As far as you can tell she's just started looking for someone else. Exposing only works when you actually have something to expose.
Her looking for someone new is just the next part of her plans to move on with her life. Everyone is right about how it will be needy and clingy on your part.
Right now you're acting out of fear, frustration, etc. You're looking for a reason when there may not be a reason. It's out of your control and it's driving you nuts. What are you afraid of?
Start building your own self-esteem and self-respect or else all you're going to end up is being a stalker in your W's life. It's totally turning her off and if you continue to push the dating issue, all your chances will be gone.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.