Like Grit, I don't wear mine either. I took mine off in anger also when I heard that H took his off.
I, too, thought about putting it back on until I thought about what the ring symbolized to me. For me my ring meant a promise of love, honor, and fidelity.
H broke those promises when he took up with the ow.
Yes, this M is dead. If I ever put it back on it will signify to me that a new M has risen from the ashes of the old.
I believe also that to wear it or not to wear it is a personal choice.