I sent her a texr around 2 in regards to the kids:
Me:where will the kids be?
W; what time?
Me: 4
W;no plans....
Me: so at your house?
W: yeah
Me:i will get them around 430-500
W: I have to be at work at 5 W: U not going to gym?
Me: take them to work and I will get them there
W: U can ask me.....u know? U are starting to be awfully demanding and its rude
Me: Sorry you feel that way
W: Im sure u r.... I had plans and u are demanding that u get the kids and telling me when and where to take them for u
Me:U r working tonight correct? I need more time with them and you are not respecting that. Lets get a schedule setup and this will not be an issue.
W: was he there tues and wed?
Me:who were?
W: (roommates name) at yalls place(she does not like who i live with)
Me:Wed after kids I were asleep I believe(I told her earlier that he is hardly ever home) Me: doesnt matter I am moving anyway
W:It does....
Me: I will not put my kids in harm's way, thats all I left to say
W:But you still moved in to an inappropriate environment. Why not your brothers if it was going to be temporary. I am not trying to argue I am just uncomfortable with the environment.
W: (roommates name) wasnt there the other night and he wont be tonight?
W: Hello
At this point I stopped responding to her. As I said in my last text I had said everything I had to say.
The fact I live with another guy, who is single does not make the environment unsafe for my kids. I am going to get a lease on a new place so she cant keep using the current living situation against me now or in court.
I feel she is still tring to pull my strings and control me using the kids as the bait, am I wrong thinking this? I am going to get my kids take them somewhere fun for dinner and watch a movie with them. She will try and talk to me when I pick them up any advice to keep it short and simple without coming off as an @ss?
