^ I was going to quote those same 2 things, Puppy.
If he tells you he is going to cut you off from sex, tell him, "And what makes you think I would have sex with you when you're living with someone else?" Then walk away/end the conversation, etc.
When he says it's hard for him to be around you & not want sex... ugh, I am sorry, but I would have wanted to punch him in the face. (Do not do this though, it's just a fun fantasy).
He is CAKE-eating. You asked about dropping the rope... it is just what it states. LET HIM GO. Do not call him, do not text him, do not anything with him. He's acting like he is gifting you with his presence while he carries on an A. It's revolting.
Now is not the time for emotions, Tay. Hard as that sounds. You need to get serious fast. Tell him it ends with her or you will look at all your options, including divorce.
Originally Posted By: didthehurt
If you are talking to the OW i would tell her that you also got tested. It might get her scared and cut him off also.
My play on this would be saying, "I hope you've gotten tested for STDs" in a cheery voice and leave it at that. It will make her start thinking a lot about what mess she has gotten herself into.
Get tested, Tay. You said she has a lot of dudes over that she sleeps with or something like that so if you H is PA'ing with her, it's very likely you have been sleeping with everyone she has (not meant to scare you but STDs are NO joke).
