Here's a story...of a very sad lady

[mishka422]

You can't make him live up to anything Dagny. He either does or he doesn't and lives with the consequences. If he breaks the boys heart, they learn from that and so does he. It's an unfortunate fact of A's and D. A person involved in an A will do anything to give life to that R at any expense....it's all about them and their needs and wants and selfishness.

So, that is the long answer to....let him choke on it!

Now.......back to you....what are you planning to do for yourself? Choose one small step and take it. Even if it's something as small as going out for an evening of coffee and magaine perusal at your local bookstore....do it. Do something for yourself as often as possible. Self-care is of the utmost importance right now.