MLC spouse projecting their negativity onto the BS

[fisherman]

Continue to be strong and remain respectful.

A distant kindness will work well for the both of you.

Be careful not to let her manipulate you. They will use kindness, anger, pity... you name it, to get what they want.

Stay out of the storm, and don't be standing right were she left you, continue to move forward toward a better you.