I wasn't trying to be funny. It could very well be someone who once was as scared and hurting as you are now. Who could give you some confidence that you are not finding yourself. It could be someone you have more in common with then 'what the realtor said.'
I read your thread on the other forum. I won't comment there. I won't advocate that nonsense. Might as well wear a t-shirt that reads cuckold. You can embrass yourself with alot more dignity than that.
Honestly Mza. What do you think you could ever accomplish by telling anyone? Piss her off so she never talks to you again? Make it so her family gives you weird looks everytime they see you? Have a couple people say 'oh yeah. we know'? Get the old widow down the street to feel sorry for you?
Don't be so desperate. "In some of the success stories cases when infidelity was involved the LBS still confronted and exposed and THEN let go." Ridiculous. There is no letting go. Be vengeful against someone else trying to find themself then PRETEND you don't care. Yeah right.
