No sweat, Wonka. Spent some time on the road myself. Probably have to get back into it soon enough.
Originally Posted By: Wonka
W picks the phone....mustering up all reserves of courage...then calls your phone line. Then panic sets in...so she hangs up. A part of me suspects that she is struggling with the notion that she is bracing herself to confess to YOU about her A and the OM.
Possible but unlikely. She's never really been a fan of Vmail though, ironically, she usually lets others go to Vmail. Plus, it's been a habit of hers (and mine) that my return call is expected. See 180 Not much to confess about A and OM unless it's over. Don't believe it is.
Tempted to "undetach" a little and see if she is at her mom's now. That would be significant.
Originally Posted By: Wonka
Sit still and observe carefully. Don't make any sudden moves.
It may appear that W is looping back and forth with OM. When ending an A, it is full of fits and starts. Very well a possibility for your W and the OM. From my vantage point, W is probably struggling with her inner turmoil over the affair, her feelings for OM and how to deal with you who is her legal H! What a ball of yarn for W to wade through herself. By scrapbooking, W is most likely trying to figure out how her feelings fit into the "image" of a happy, intact family knowing the extent of the A's damage to it and reconnecting with this unit.
I'll keep the squirrel in mind. Front and center. Thanks. Fits and starts. Understood. "Her" rollercoaster.
I don't want to mind read on the scrap booking but I do beleive that "what" she took is significant. Scrapbooking and wedding dresses.
I wish I had paid more attention to how I packed the scrapbooking stuff so that I knew 'what stuff" she took.