The ring thing! Haven't seen my spouse in a month - but I believe the ring is off of his hand because he dabbled with it on and off when I saw him.

For me - bottom line is that we are still legally married and I wear my rings because of that reason. I have not left our marriage. I can't help what he does - but I have kids who notice things like that and my marriage is not over...(at least not today)!

I believe wholeheartedly that this is an individual decision and I am VERY respectful of anyone's decision on this board. Alb - you do what feels right to you.


M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years
Ds-24,22/S-18
D - 3/11
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