Here's some quick advice you can put into effect immediately: you've seen your wife's profile on the dating website, set up a profile on the same dating website, fill in similar interests and criteria so that you show up in her search results. Get some good pics taken, set up a great profile that stands out from the rest and include a blurb in your profile that says you've enjoyed all the dates you've been on thus far.
do you like Piña coladas. getting caught in the rain. lol.
better yet. get one of the women at work to set you up with one of their divorced friends. its not infidelity. its enjoying someone else's company.
