Here's some quick advice you can put into effect immediately: you've seen your wife's profile on the dating website, set up a profile on the same dating website, fill in similar interests and criteria so that you show up in her search results. Get some good pics taken, set up a great profile that stands out from the rest and include a blurb in your profile that says you've enjoyed all the dates you've been on thus far.
do you like Piña coladas. getting caught in the rain. lol.
better yet. get one of the women at work to set you up with one of their divorced friends. its not infidelity. its enjoying someone else's company.
get one of the women at work to set you up with one of their divorced friends.
probably end up being a bunny boiler.
I love Friday afternoons
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Here's some quick advice you can put into effect immediately: you've seen your wife's profile on the dating website, set up a profile on the same dating website, fill in similar interests and criteria so that you show up in her search results. Get some good pics taken, set up a great profile that stands out from the rest and include a blurb in your profile that says you've enjoyed all the dates you've been on thus far.
do you like Piña coladas. getting caught in the rain. lol.
better yet. get one of the women at work to set you up with one of their divorced friends. its not infidelity. its enjoying someone else's company.
Rob, thanks for your detailed post. I know everyone's still with me. Means a lot to me.
I'm sure one one of my threads I've probably already asked this but I'll ask again. Haven't we all heard the same thing from our WAS? Their done, etc.? Look at the success stories here. What got the WAS to even look back in the LBS's sirection? You don't have to answer I know, it's been said to me many times. Just wanted to say that everyone hear, including the success stories, has heard and gone through the same thing.
Yeah, the majority of the success stories happened when the LBS finally let go. I get that, I really do. In some of the success stories cases when infidelity was involved the LBS still confronted and exposed and THEN let go. I like that method. Could this not be a way to go for me? Confront, expose, let go? Thinking out loud so please be gentle.
Steve, I don't like pina coladas or the rain. What does that say?
Coach, Hammerjacks is gone. Torn down in the late 90s. It was where the new new Ravens stadium is now. O's are playing better now under Buck. Doesn't matter anyway, my Ravens are getting ready to kick some butt this season. I smell Superbowl! I know your Saints won it last season but not this year.
Bunny boiler...hmmm, well, maybe.
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch
I really do believe that if the WAS is going to return it only happens when they truly feel they want to. And sadly, your W has not given you ONE glimmer that the thought even crossed her mind.
BUT *any* gesture she does you take to mean way more. Like the last time you saw her and she smiled you wondered what that meant. Well, nothing. People smile. People frown. It meant nothing more than at that moment in time she felt like smiling.
You have not been able to let go as of yet. If there is a time to let go it is now. Not because every single person reading this doesn't want your W to come back but it is necessary to deal with reality.
I am replying just because you current reply count is 666 - kinda creepy!
Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled Moved back home May 2010 PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010
