Will he agree to no contact with OW? Probably not yet. Luckily she is now living in another country so the PA has stopped, but he still says she is "his friend" and does communicate with her. I am willing to set the boundary of "no contact with her while he is in my presence or in our home", but I don't believe he will agree to complete no contact yet. Eventually, that is what I want though.
Will he agree to full transparency? Maybe. He has said he will no longer hide things from me and will be truthful with me.
Get into MC: We are both doing IC and he has said he would like to do MC.
STD test: I have done this myself and am clear. Of course, I will not have unprotected sex with him until he has done the same.
It has taken a lot on my part to get to this point, and I really don't want to take a step backwards, so am treading very carefully at this point.
M: 36 H: 37 Married: 13 years Together: 17 years No kids Bomb Dropped: 6/10 (MLC, OW, ILYBNILWY) He Moved Out: 8/10
