Yep, Sunny. Puppy is strict and relentless on progress. When he leaves, Wonka takes over.
*thud* (brushing off dirt) Well, thanks Puppy, for letting my host personality take over!
I reiterate this point once again: Sit still and observe carefully. Don't make any sudden moves.
It may appear that W is looping back and forth with OM. When ending an A, it is full of fits and starts. Very well a possibility for your W and the OM. From my vantage point, W is probably struggling with her inner turmoil over the affair, her feelings for OM and how to deal with you who is her legal H! What a ball of yarn for W to wade through herself. By scrapbooking, W is most likely trying to figure out how her feelings fit into the "image" of a happy, intact family knowing the extent of the A's damage to it and reconnecting with this unit.
Regarding those phantom phone calls to you, I can easily picture this scenario:
W picks the phone....mustering up all reserves of courage...then calls your phone line. Then panic sets in...so she hangs up. A part of me suspects that she is struggling with the notion that she is bracing herself to confess to YOU about her A and the OM.
No?
Puppy, best to share Kit Kat with me otherwise another one of my yet-to-appear personalities will come out and grab it! Methinks got the "sweet tooth".
(CD, sorry bud...traveling all week and a very hectic week for me)