Originally Posted By: eeyore_no_more
Since you've been talking to OW, why don't you let her know you and your husband are still sleeping together. She might be interested in seeing some of the love poems he's written lately as well.

Chances are pretty good he hasn't been completely honest with OW, either, and this may cause some tension over at her place...


That is what I did when I talked to the OW last week. That is why my husband got so upset. He told me that I did not have to tell her everything. I really laid everything on the line. I told her about the love poems. I told her about all the times that we had slept together. I told her about what he says about her and the whole 9 yards. She still claimed that she was not sleeping with him. Once my husband found out that I had spoke to her again he told me that we will never have sex again. He then went on to tell me that instead of spending the day at the house when he comes to see the kids he will just take them somewhere. He said that it is to hard for him to be around me and not want to have sex with me. He told me to let things just play out the way that they are going to play out. What should my next move be from here? I know that it was said to drop the rope. Can I get some detail about that?


Me (32) H (36)
Together (12 years)
Married (3 years)
Children (4 ages 11,9,7,6)
Bomb dropped (November 09)
Seperated (January 29, 2010)