@ris.....I have been seperated from my husband for 6 months and I have done all of these things. Is it too late for me to make a turn around and win my husband back? We still talk and are interacting with each other well. He is involved with a OW but we spend one day together every week.
Tay Tay,
It's never too late (I'm proof of that, as are many of the others on here), but spending one day per week with your husband while he's having an affair won't have anything to do with your eventual success, if you in fact succeed.
While they are in their affairs, they are for the most part physiologically blocked from allowing you to fulfill their emotional needs. Affairs are ADDICTIONS, and until you separate the addict (your husband) from the source of his addiction (his OW), he's going to remain blocked to you.