I just ordered DR, but isnt it too late? So what you're saying is to do the opposite of what I'm feeling? So when he makes dinner, I should tell him he's an ahole?
No, that's NOT what I'm saying. Where did I say that?
I'm saying that DBing is counterintuitive, and when someone advises something these seems counter-intuitive to you, but both the poster and MWD are advocating it, to TRY it at least, before dismissing the advice.
