What some of us learned the hard way is allowing your wife to cheat on you and allowing her to bully you behind it, and cut you out will eat out of your masculine side...
I agree with the above.
However, my wife is not cheating on me. If she was, I would not be speaking to her at all, and I would have already filed for divorce. It's a dealbreaker boundary for me, and I told her this early on.
Where in my sitch do you see my wife "bullying" me?
I don't know many women that are "scared" and "terrified" of opening themselves to their gay best friends???
What I see is her being NEEDY wanting me to help her even while she wants to be separated from me (a bit of cake eating) and me overpursuing her, being oversupplicating and settling for less than I deserve.
Last edited by bustorama; 08/27/1006:09 PM.
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