question....do the vows for better or worse include or not include cheating? Does breaking that vow mean that the hurt spouse now can forget about the worse part? Its one thing that i have struggled with.. A few months back the W said that since i broke that vow she didnt have to honor the or worse part that was only for if i lost my job, got sick,,,etc. I said well you came back and recommitted to the M. She said no i did not recommit i was gonna try and get over it, which now i see i just cant stop thinking about it....Again that was several months ago. Also what is work on a relationship? does that mean going to conuseling? Reading a book, keeping it buried up??? What are some of the things that the hurt people did to help overcome the pain and hurt?
me 36 W 33 s-6 s-4 together since 1991 married Dec 2000 9years first affair before we where married. Second affair 1/2007 Gone Nov,2007 Back June 2008. ILYBNILY---i cannot believe you did this 7/22/2010
